Is M/M Slash Like Pseudo-Lesbian Porn Produced for Straight Men? - Mo's Journal
Is M/M Slash Like Pseudo-Lesbian Porn Produced for Straight Men?|
OK, one more thing...
If I'm going to read porn or watch erotica, not only do I *like* m/m, I am pretty sure I prefer it over m/f. I think my ranking would go like this: m/m, then f/f, and then, lastly, m/f. In fact, I'd rather not watch or read m/f at all, largely because I find it boring.
However, in reality, I love connecting with men and I love hetero sex so long as it's with someone I feel a major, huge, ginormous connection to.
I have yet to experience actual lesbian sex (involving any action from the waist down), so I can't report on that. But my suspicion regarding that is that I would get off wonderfully, but still want a relationship/partnership with a man. That is a large reason why not much has happened for me in that arena -- at the same time that I would want the sexual experience with another woman, I wouldn't want an actual girlfriend. This would be all fine and dandy (I'm sure I could find a fuck-buddy out there somewhere if I weren't picky) if it were not for my either culturally or biologically fueled repulsion to casual sex. Did that make any sense? I want the sex divorced from the relationship, yet I don't. Perhaps in another life I'll be less internally conflicted :)
|Date:||January 23rd, 2009 12:23 pm (UTC)|| |
I think it's really common for people to find things erotic in fiction and fantasy that aren't what they want to do in real life.