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|Date:||August 10th, 2006 04:09 pm (UTC)|| |
Oh! I think you're not quite understanding the backlash-against-the-Church thing. Marriage is something the Church said you had to do, so now a lot of people won't—civil ceremony or not.
I guess that makes sense. Although having a marriage that the Church won't recognize seems just as much sticking it to them to me as not doing it at all. Different strokes and all that. And, coming back to the whole legal climate thing, since common law couples in Canada have the same rights as married ones, marriage doesn't really buy you much unless the ceremony and party and gifts and social aspects are meaningful to you.
Afaik, common-law couples in Canada don't
have quite all the same rights as married ones—for instance, the Nova Scotia gov website
says "Filing a domestic partners declaration provides the partners with many
of the same rights and obligations that married couples have under a number of Nova Scotia statutes," [emphasis mine]. It's something that varies by province, and honestly I'm not even sure what the situation in Quebec is (their website was less helpful!).
|Date:||August 10th, 2006 04:36 pm (UTC)|| |
Do you know what rights common law couples don't have? I thought that was the anti-same-sex marriage argument before the Supreme Court, that same-sex couples already have all the *rights* and that the ceremonial aspects are rightly reserved for opposite sex couples because of religion and tradition and blah blah. But that the Supreme Court rejected that saying that having one's relationship recognized as on equal footing with other married couples *is* a right. But it's a long time since I read all this stuff and I could be misremembering. I do know that a whole lot of stuff that we can only get through marriage in this country comes with common law in Canada.
No, I'm not sure what the actual differences are (and I've just been trying to find out online without success).
About the only thing I know for sure is that income taxes are identical for legally married and common-law spouses here.
If I remember the situation correctly, back when the same-sex marriage challenges were happening, the government proposed to create a legal status which would be identical to marriage in every way, but not called "marriage" (a rose by any other name?). But the courts basically said "not good enough," and we got real same-sex marriage.