Some Further Thoughts on Realism in Slash - Mo's Journal — LiveJournal
Some Further Thoughts on Realism in Slash|
|Date:||January 29th, 2007 10:14 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: Bambi vs. Groomzilla
I wouldn't exactly say that conventional romance tropes were invented by gay men for gay men, so much as that they're like vintners who export MOST of the wine but keep some.
Thanks for the article link, I hadn't seen it before. Girls certainly have a lot more wedding mythology than boys, and everybody varies in how much they want to go against dominant ideologies, including people who have same-sex partners.
Expressions of love are both idiosyncratic and influenced by both the wider culture and one's own subculture. I remember a 1970s reference to giving a brown leather bomber jacket to one's partner as "gay minks."