Which of the following words or usages of words rub you the wrong way?
Which of the following terms bother you when used to identify a member of a committed same-sex couple?
Of the ones above that rub you the wrong way, do they
Please feel free to expand on your views in comments. I'll give mine after I see some results.
ETA: I'm a doofus when it comes to polls. I realized, in trying to fill it out myself, that some terms could bother one in certain contexts and others in different contexts and still others in all contexts. So feel free to complain about that in comments and also to explain which terms bother you in which.